This is my first blog so bear the pain..
Wearing a Cisco hoody, earphones plugged-in, listening to fever 104, and beautiful voice of richa for almost an hour, I came accross a smart guy in santro car lighting up his cigarette, and 2 steps later a super-thin man on bicycle all ready to intake the tabacoo. I strangely felt something, and a question popped up in my mind what has led these people to this addiction, what is that they share?
I inquired myself and felt to great surprise that the reason is all the same as why i'm walking on these roads aimlessly for hours. Only thing's different is what they chose was not walking but cigarette or tobacco. I didn't believe it at first and then i started pounding my head for answers and what i found out was the same.
The reason a person grows an addiction is becuase it becomes a habit that he grows at the times he doesn't know what to do. See around you and look at people you know are addicted to anything, they'll show you, it all started at times they were confused/depressed, they seek alone time and in ths alone time they seek a different friend i.e. some way to keep up with oneself, and at last everyone finds it at one place or the other, e.g. taking cigarettes as excuse to stay up late at nights.
And as it is found one like the company of the new friend to the fullest and not the real people, and there is the root, he has become an addict. And when you come out of the hard time its very late, you are already addictive.
So thinking it through i realised do i share something with them? I think i do, not with them but i share the some part of feeling they've been through, things that have come to make them stand alone there lighting cigarettes,and m i going on the same path sitting alone in room listning music, lying on bed for hours, or just taking a walk aimessly that converts to hours before you realise?
I don't know what's the answer to this problem, but when i see it i see that atleast i'm not following the same path as others have grown to be addicted of ,and i can only give here one advice to myself and my friends- whenever there is a problem don't seek for friend that kill yo,u but choose to fight the situation and try not to be alone, and even if you are do things that doesn't make you an addict , but that build you.
